How to speak so that people want to listen

How to speak so that people want to listen


人們常常在說話，
為什麼別人常充耳不聞？
Julian Treasure舉出我們說話常犯的七個壞習慣：
1. gossip
2. judging
3. negativity
4. complaining
5. excuses
6. lying
7. dogmatism (the confusion of facts with opinions)
我們應該避免犯這些錯誤，
而改用hail來引導我們的言語：
H=Honesty (be clear and straight)
A=Authenticity (be yourself)
I= Integrity (be your word)
L=Love (wish people well)
以愛心為出發點，
我們的言語，
將如口吐蓮花。
我們說話時，也要善用我們的語言工具箱，
說出貼切，而能讓別人想傾聽的話：
1. register
(the range of musical notes that someone's voice or a musical instrument can reach)
2. timbre
(It's the way your voice feels.→rich, smooth, warm, like hot chocolate)
3. prosody
(the sing-song, the meta-language that we use in order to impart meaning. It's root one for meaning in conversation.)
4. pace
5. pitch
6. volume
Julian Treasure在影片一一解說及示範。
最後，
Julian Treasure帶聽眾做了Warm up your voice的練習。
也勉勵大家
更注重語言表達，
以達到溝通的目標。