Hurting or Helping

Hurting or Helping
Listening well and curbing anger can improve your life

Advanced July, 2006

這一篇真的是句句良言，
很值得我深思及改進。
文章中提到：
"Remember your listening is a great gift."
在這個步調匆忙，重視效率的時代，
如果有人願意撥出時間靜靜聆聽我們的心聲，    
那必是最最要好的朋友。
傾聽要適度回應，
文中提到一個很重要的原則：
Don't interrupt. It's rude, and it communicates that you think what you have to say is more important than what you have to say.
要耐心傾聽，回應要簡短，
總是要別人多感受到你的關懷。
因此作者建議要聽得多，說得少些。
傾聽是一門永遠待修的功課。