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Reader's Digest May, 2006
有一篇
"the perfect childhood why it's bad for kids"
很受用。文章中提要做個有效能的父母的三個原則
1. Don't try to make your child into a superconfident
jack-of-all-trades...Instead discover your child's
particular strengths.
2. Use praise in specific, not global, terms.
3. Academics and sports aren't the only avenues worthy of notice.
Pay attention to your child's work ethic and moral values.
總之要把握住教養的原則：
A child should
not be overly praised,
not be overprotected,
not be constantly rescued-
but be listened to, understood and supported.
愛小孩就是放手讓他去嘗試
從錯誤中學習
父母則是孩子成長的鷹架，
終需放手讓小孩找尋自己的夢，
孩子總是在父母的信任中有所成長。
1. Don't try to make your child into a superconfident
jack-of-all-trades...Instead discover your child's
particular strengths.
2. Use praise in specific, not global, terms.
3. Academics and sports aren't the only avenues worthy of notice.
Pay attention to your child's work ethic and moral values.
總之要把握住教養的原則：
A child should
not be overly praised,
not be overprotected,
not be constantly rescued-
but be listened to, understood and supported.
愛小孩就是放手讓他去嘗試
從錯誤中學習
父母則是孩子成長的鷹架，
終需放手讓小孩找尋自己的夢，
孩子總是在父母的信任中有所成長。